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Thank Him for Me

Tom Lehrer

A present relationship makes room for gratitude toward someone who helped shape the person being loved.

Tom Lehrer: Author Lyric Sheets Text 28 Undated text
Public domainGratitudeRomanceMemoryTenderReflective
Complete public-domain lyrics

The lyric looks beyond the current couple to earlier care, growth and influence. Its recurring invitation to give thanks is gentle rather than satirical. The source credits the words to Lehrer and notes two musical settings, one by Lehrer and one by Michael Gould. All seven printed blocks are retained; neither setting or a particular recording is reproduced or inferred.

Verse 1

Once upon a timeless past

Someone with a faceless name

Opened a door for you,

Opened much more for you.

Verse 2

Maybe that was miles ago,

But he is with you just the same.

He helped you to be

What you are to me

Today.

Verse 3

So now it's me, and now it's you, and now it's us

But it didn't,

No, it didn't have to be,

And so when you see him,

If you ever see him,

Thank him for me.

Verse 4

Miracles don't just appear fully grown.

They start off as wonders

That have to be tended

And nourished and mended

Until they are splendid

Enough to go out on their own.

Verse 5

And somewhere in the timeless past

Is someone to be grateful to,

Like yesterday's vine

That made today's wine.

Verse 6

Maybe he has someone now

Who's happy that a part of you

Is somehow still his,

Wherever he is

Today.

Verse 7

And now it's me, and now it's you, and now it's us.

And it didn't,

No, it didn't have to be,

And so when you see him,

If you ever see him,

Thank him for me.

Credits

Written by Tom Lehrer

Words by Tom Lehrer, released into the public domain by the author. This is the author-published text edition, not a transcription of a particular performance.

Source & text edition

Author-published lyric sheet · original English words

Tom Lehrer's November 26, 2022 declaration relinquishes copyright in lyrics he wrote. It does not grant rights to third-party music, photographs or album artwork. This edition uses only his words.

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